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Topic: IDing Killed Snakes Discussion

kaptainkory wrote:

Probably best just to offer up an ID guys, like was requested, and keep the emotions and stories to other--more appropriate--threads.  This site is for everyone; please don't claim it for some particular "group" or another.

Thanks for understanding and please play nicely.   cool

I would say we've been very nice considering the blatant display of ignorance that was shown.
And yes, the forum is for everyone, but if we simply let things like that go unchallenged then he and others will never know the error of their ways.

Feel free to move this thread to the sandbox if you feel that would be a more appropriate place for it.

Have a great day!

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Ecclesiates 10:2

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This dabbles into a fine line we have dealt with many times in the past. As many on here can tell you, I used to be the 1st one to pipe up tell people to quit being stupid. Heck they probably made me a moderator to try to slow me down a bit, LOL.

Anyway, we definitely need to point out that it is wrong to kill the snakes. The manner of doing so is where it gets tricky. As much as we hate having to be civil when blatant ignorance is displayed, we need to try our best to play nice and educate. In my opinion, the posts that sparked this discussion really weren't that bad. However, they were teetering on the edge of hateful vs helpful. So don't take what Kory said as a slap on the hand or anything (correct me if I'm wrong Kory). I think it was more to make sure we don't get into a habit of running off people that we could potentially motivate to help rather than pointlessly kill herps.

Josh Engelbert
Copan, OK

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I agree Josh and I do apologize if my comment came off as hateful in any way. People killing snakes is just something that happens and what seems like ignorance to us may not be to someone else. This is a great site that has come to be respected and recomended by many of the wildlife agencies in the state to people wishing to educate themselves. Maybe we need to be more sensitive to "New" people.

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I'm seriously thinking troll on those pics. Would any one of receive the same courtesy from a birders forum showing pics of birds we killed or dog forums showing DOR Cocker Spaniels? Hell no we wouldn't!! Again in my opinion,this was a pretty blatant troll and I will continue to respond to this ( and many others in the past) in the same manner.

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Well, I deleted my 'dead snake story' from that thread, at first because Kory said that stories would be best in a more appropriate thread, but also (in hindsight) maybe members weren't in the mood to laugh at a story involving a dead snake (even one that was DOR found by a dog)  I'm kinda old (53) and tend to reply to posts with "That reminds me of the time..."  in a lame attempt to 'lighten the mood'.
  So I won't start a new thread, 'Rude Things I Have Said and Done in Reaction to Non-Herpers' because the list would be too long!! big_smile

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I have not read that thread yet, came here to read first and dont spend my days monitoring the posts here anymore because we're all pretty comfortable in trusting each other's responses when ID issues come up... ignorantly posted or not.   As much as this site is for "everyone" -- the FORUMS.. are not. We only encourage people to post here when they are looking for help in identifications, deterants, questions, etc...  We dont ask random people who find us to post on the forums about their blatant kills... The forums here are more geared toward people within the hobby, posting reports, research, scientific questions. Q & A posters come and go pretty quickly and usually do not register.... I cant imagine anyone in this hobby or field of expertise would show much compassion for a person who pawns himself off as innocent but when looking into it further, seems to intentionally want a rise out of us.

If some local looking for a snake ID comes to our site looking for information on the snake they just killed, it directs them to the galleries for a proper ID (at least it used to!) .. Like Kory said, its emotional... some more than others because of the manner amd attitudes in which they are posted. We can try to guide the "kill first, question later" and reprimand without chastising someone.. MOST cases the poster feels bad, apologizes and learns something. We've all been TALKING in person to people with the "tough crap, I killed it, whatcha gonna do" mouth and we have to walk away, its not so easy to do that in posts.

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Well, back now from AZ and ready to weigh in a bit in this discussion; though I think Josh pretty much captured the gist of it.  I'm probably still a little sleep deprived, so keep that in mind.

Firstly, there is one forum rule: "play nicely".  What that means and how that is interpreted is solely left up to the discretion of administrators and moderators...and I will always and completely have their backs on every matter (or I'll demote them...hehe, j/k).

In the thread in question, I thought the replies were beginning to teeter to the side of not playing nicely.  I think a couple of the posters felt bad afterwards, but I was not chastising anyone in particular.  Basically it boils down to no poster, regardless of their opinion or stance or action, should feel "run off", "ganged up on", or "beat down" when they visit the forums...especially when asking for specific help and information.  When a poster already says they feel bad about killing a snake, as this one did, it isn't playing nicely to continue to punish them with it.  We can't save a snake that's already dead...but we can save the next one.

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Copperheadman309 wrote:

I'm seriously thinking troll on those pics.

As an administrator, I will always give an abundance of benefit of doubt.

Copperheadman309 wrote:

Would any one of receive the same courtesy from a birders forum showing pics of birds we killed or dog forums showing DOR Cocker Spaniels?

This isn't a birder or dog forum and we can establish whatever standards we wish; perhaps even higher standards.

Mystic-B wrote:

As much as this site is for "everyone" -- the FORUMS.. are not. We only encourage people to post here when they are looking for help in identifications, deterants, questions, etc...  We dont ask random people who find us to post on the forums about their blatant kills... The forums here are more geared toward people within the hobby, posting reports, research, scientific questions. Q & A posters come and go pretty quickly and usually do not register.... I cant imagine anyone in this hobby or field of expertise would show much compassion for a person who pawns himself off as innocent but when looking into it further, seems to intentionally want a rise out of us.

I respectfully differ in opinion on this (or perhaps I'm not fully understanding your stance).  If we police the "play nicely" rule and use the mission statement as a guide for addressing issues, everything else works itself out.  Anyone can view the forums, anyone can register if they wish, anyone can post if they wish, even the Q&A forum doesn't require registration...I don't see how this isn't for everyone, or at the least accessible to everyone.  If people want to build forts, we can turn the forums private and set up whatever rules we wish to protect ourselves.  Otherwise, we need to be ready and thoughtful about whatever comes our way.

Again, no one is in trouble, no one is being chastised...  But let's talk about this; let's work this out.

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I'm not trying to pour fuel on the fire and I mean no disrespect. Those of you who have met/herped with me know i'm a pretty laid back guy;  but I stand by my original post.
I think the guy was trying to get us fired up.  He came on the forum and said he likes snakes and stated that he owns the Amphibians and Reptiles of Arkansas field guide, ( a book that not just anyone is going to buy due to it's $40 cost) yet he claims he couldn't find the snake in the book???  I have a hard time believing he was simply an innocent bystander.

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Again, what you said was not inappropriate. This just gave us a reason to bring up this topic again. There are many new people on here that haven't had the pleasure of experiencing some of the more colorful posters of our past. We have had many hateful words slung around and have ran off several trolls. We even parted ways with a few members that decided they wanted to post lots of inappropriate things including threatening PMs to admins and moderators.

Anyway, this was just a starting point to discuss ways to deal with legitimately ignorant people. Trolls are usually dealt with pretty well. However, people that pop in and post about a snake that they killed and are actually trying to educate themselves need to be handled differently. That is the point of this thread. The point wasn't trying to tell anyone that they were out of line or weren't "playing nice". Every once in a while the "play nice" rule needs to be mentioned. These types of threads give us a reason. If what was said on that thread was the worst we had to deal with, we wouldn't even need that rule.

Josh Engelbert
Copan, OK

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I agree with Kory and Josh.  I looked at the post that started this and it really was VERY tame compared to some in the past (anyone remember the guy bragging about decapitating ringnecks?).  I don't think he was trying to get us fired up at all.  I think he was honest.  If he wanted to get us fired up he would have used pictures that were much more graphic.

And as far as him having the book and not being able to figure out what kind of snake it was, I think we need to remember that not everyone is at the level we are.  I took a class one time where the professor was holding a bird in his hand while me and another student tried to ID it.  Neither of us were birders so we looked for quite a while through our field guide and made guess after guess only to get it wrong.  In the end he had to tell us what it was.  Yes, birds are harder to ID than snakes.  But if this guy was amateur enough, then he could have had a similar problem.  Maybe he was looking mainly at pictures and not relying on the text.  Some of the text has words that a non-scientifically inclined person might not understand so pictures would be easier to use.  But there is a lot of phenotypic variation and you can't have enough pictures to represent all of it.  Some people look for a picture that looks EXACTLY like the snake they saw, but can't find the exact same thing and get confused.  I suspect that may have happened in this case.

Also, I agree that the responses weren't bad, but it was good for Kory to say something about it BEFORE it got ugly.  Those of us who have been here longer can remember some very ugly discussions, such as the one about the ringnecks and our friend Kachunga (anybody remember him?).  I think the better thing to do is to try to keep things from getting that far because some people will just be turned off by us if we are constantly berating people who have an honest, though misguided, question or opinion.  I think we've all had someone come brag to us about killing a snake.  I've had students do that to me and it can be really hard not to say something that I shouldn't.  But if you tell people how wrong they are and look down on them, you're not likely to get the point across that snakes are actually not bad.  Try a little understanding from their point of view, give it time, and they might come across.  But some of the people who have come to this website and didn't get that from us are probably lost causes because we didn't approach them with some understanding.  One person has to be the bigger person in these situations, and I think it would help everyone involved if we are the bigger people.

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LONG LIVE KACHUNGA !!!!
lol  lol  lol  lol

(sorry, this whole topic has gotten way too serious!)

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big_smile  Kachunga indeed!!!!

Braithre Thar Gach Ni

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"From deep in the swamps of Florida comes......KACHUNGA!!!!"


That sound byte will never leave my memory. He was one of the more entertaining ones that no longer frequent this site, lol.

Josh Engelbert
Copan, OK

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I agree that we have to try and educate. Believe me I have bitten my tongue many times when dealing with people who know little or nothing about snakes hoping to be able to reach them. Sometimes, it pays off, but I just didn't get a good feeling in this case. Maybe i'm wrong.

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kaptainkory wrote:
Mystic-B wrote:

As much as this site is for "everyone" -- the FORUMS.. are not. We only encourage people to post here when they are looking for help in identifications, deterants, questions, etc...  We dont ask random people who find us to post on the forums about their blatant kills... The forums here are more geared toward people within the hobby, posting reports, research, scientific questions. Q & A posters come and go pretty quickly and usually do not register.... I cant imagine anyone in this hobby or field of expertise would show much compassion for a person who pawns himself off as innocent but when looking into it further, seems to intentionally want a rise out of us.

I respectfully differ in opinion on this (or perhaps I'm not fully understanding your stance)....I don't see how this isn't for everyone, or at the least accessible to everyone..

Thats okay, Kory at the time I was gearing in a different direction and the thread didnt go there so it probably doesnt need any further elaboration.. but the point I was trying to make was that typical lookie loos dont register and stick around long enough to make trouble intentionally..  We're a group of people with common hobbies-- people who arent into snakes dont just hang out and discuss/post/read like we do... therefore the forum part of this site is more for us than it is for them..  Apart from the Q & A section, of course...

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I agree that this has gotten too serious. Chuck Norris once stared at a black mamba and it was instantly paralyzed with fear. Really though, try to educate. The "ignorant" people that refuse to listen usually just want to get a rise out of you and the best thing you can do is not let it get to you just because they want it to.

"The mechanic that would perfect his work must first sharpen his tools".  -Confucius

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Snakehunter19 wrote:

try to educate. The "ignorant" people that refuse to listen usually just want to get a rise out of you and the best thing you can do is not let it get to you .

    I try to follow the advice of my signature.  I believe the verse refers to the careful behavior of serpents:
                                                                       Don't stand out too much.
                                                                       Be still when threatened and don't blink.
                                                                       Strike at the last resort & be sure of your target.
   These rules are easier followed when equipped with camouflage, protective eye covers, Jacobson's organ and facial pits.  My best aid is my wife.  Last night she told me to remove an unkind comment I made to a FB post (made by a church member who killed a 'black snake')  She also tries to stop me from taking the serpent imitation too far when I attempt to eat a foot-long Subway sandwich in one bite.

"...be as wise as serpents..."  Matthew 10:16
"...I just thought that should be brung out"  ~Goober (on 'The Andy Griffith Show')

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prof.dave wrote:
Snakehunter19 wrote:

try to educate. The "ignorant" people that refuse to listen usually just want to get a rise out of you and the best thing you can do is not let it get to you .

    I try to follow the advice of my signature.  I believe the verse refers to the careful behavior of serpents:
                                                                       Don't stand out too much.
                                                                       Be still when threatened and don't blink.
                                                                       Strike at the last resort & be sure of your target.
   These rules are easier followed when equipped with cammoflage, protective eye covers, Jacobson's organ and facial pits.  My best aid is my wife.  Last night she told me to remove an unkind comment I made to a FB post (made by a church member who killed a 'black snake')  She also tries to stop me from taking the serpent imitation too far when I attempt to eat a foot-long Subway sandwich in one bite.


I like that. I guess i've inadvertently lived by that saying my entire life. I do, however, wish that people could realize that there's a lot to learn from animals and just because it's scary doesn't make it deadly. And you gotta be careful with those Subway sandwiches, they're not scary but you try to eat it like a serpent and it can be deadly, lol.  smile

"The mechanic that would perfect his work must first sharpen his tools".  -Confucius

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Sorry if my previous post has offended anyone.   Me stating " you shouldnt have killed it "  IS playing nice for me
Have a good summer all , hope you find lots of snakes!!